24.3.08
Happy eatser
Yesterday we celebrated Easter with our colleague Kris, and made him a a cute basket full of M&Ms instead of jelly beans. and it came out beautiful and we really surprised him.
Ofcourse it wouldn't come out that pretty if i didn't took incharge of the basket, i decorated it :) and i love it, im so proud of it
*obviously its not me who took the pictures :(
happy eatser everyone
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22.3.08
19.3.08
An unveiled post
Its weird, stupid and irrational when a girl decides to put on a hijab just because her boyfriend thats promising her to propose for marriage told her to wear the it first, if the hijjab is so important to him why did he love a non veiled girl in the first place, and if he did and loves the girl dose it make any difference if she wore it or not, and if it dose why dont he propose first and then she will commit to hijjab, so many girls wore it for their boyfriends sake hoping that they will propose some day and in many cases the boyfriend turns his back to his so called love and her sacrifices, some girls stays wearing it out of shame to take it off and some just removes it putting an end to the boyfriend and hijjab at the same time, ofcourse some remains wearing it out of satisfaction.
Its so weird when a girl dosent pray and isnt religious starts wearing the hijjab, you find her boyfriend, husband, parents, friends, teachers or even the whole world so proud of her, just because from the outside now she looks like how god wants her to be, isnt praying more important than wearing the hijjab, now how could people be happy for her, while they know that she wore it for a stupid reason and that reason is way far from wearing it for God.
4 years ago a friends of mine that i love so much, got engaged, and wasnt to religious or didnt know much about islam, because she wasnt raised in an arab country, and her fiance that dosne pray asked her to wear it, and she just did, now i respect how much she loves him, but how rational can that be when a non praying guy ask from a girl to wear the hijjab, ofcourse she didnt knew infront of who she is supposed to wear or why do we wear it, and i talked her out of it, cause mainly i was pissed of from her fiance for wanting her wearing it and seeing him as a hippocrates and because she didnt know alot about islam, i talked her out of it and convinced her that there is always a right time to wear it, when she learns more about it, who to cover from and when and what parts to be covered, when she is totally committed to god from the inside, committed by her actions and praying daily then she wears it, a person must only wear it for god, and after i guess 4 or 5 months that girl was totally committed to god and wore her hijjab proudly and so committed to it.
for me i never accepted from anyone to tell me how to commit to god, i hate people telling me pray, i pray when i want to, i hate it more when they say "عقبال ما تتحجبي" i dont pray and you know i dont pray why should i wear the hijjab, and it disgust the most me when a guy ask from a girl to wear the hijjab when he proposes to her.
Another thing about hijjab and reasons for wearing it, one reason i hate and i find it both cruel for the girl and islam is punishing a girl by wearing the hijjab when they catch her with a boyfriend, for god sake that will make things even worse for the girl and for the hijjab, she will never wear it in a proper way she'll always find ways to over come it by wearing tight glittery cloths and layers of makeup, by forcing her; what did she learn? nothing.
no one preached her about relations and how to be careful and when is the right time and right person, cause her parents are to close minded to talk about something like that, so for her the lesson that was learned is she had been judged and punished for how she looks not how she acts, therefor her actions will carry on and if not becomes worse, because actions dosent matter any more as long as she looks Innocent.
Its so weird when a girl dosent pray and isnt religious starts wearing the hijjab, you find her boyfriend, husband, parents, friends, teachers or even the whole world so proud of her, just because from the outside now she looks like how god wants her to be, isnt praying more important than wearing the hijjab, now how could people be happy for her, while they know that she wore it for a stupid reason and that reason is way far from wearing it for God.
4 years ago a friends of mine that i love so much, got engaged, and wasnt to religious or didnt know much about islam, because she wasnt raised in an arab country, and her fiance that dosne pray asked her to wear it, and she just did, now i respect how much she loves him, but how rational can that be when a non praying guy ask from a girl to wear the hijjab, ofcourse she didnt knew infront of who she is supposed to wear or why do we wear it, and i talked her out of it, cause mainly i was pissed of from her fiance for wanting her wearing it and seeing him as a hippocrates and because she didnt know alot about islam, i talked her out of it and convinced her that there is always a right time to wear it, when she learns more about it, who to cover from and when and what parts to be covered, when she is totally committed to god from the inside, committed by her actions and praying daily then she wears it, a person must only wear it for god, and after i guess 4 or 5 months that girl was totally committed to god and wore her hijjab proudly and so committed to it.
for me i never accepted from anyone to tell me how to commit to god, i hate people telling me pray, i pray when i want to, i hate it more when they say "عقبال ما تتحجبي" i dont pray and you know i dont pray why should i wear the hijjab, and it disgust the most me when a guy ask from a girl to wear the hijjab when he proposes to her.
Another thing about hijjab and reasons for wearing it, one reason i hate and i find it both cruel for the girl and islam is punishing a girl by wearing the hijjab when they catch her with a boyfriend, for god sake that will make things even worse for the girl and for the hijjab, she will never wear it in a proper way she'll always find ways to over come it by wearing tight glittery cloths and layers of makeup, by forcing her; what did she learn? nothing.
no one preached her about relations and how to be careful and when is the right time and right person, cause her parents are to close minded to talk about something like that, so for her the lesson that was learned is she had been judged and punished for how she looks not how she acts, therefor her actions will carry on and if not becomes worse, because actions dosent matter any more as long as she looks Innocent.
Labels: discussions, what ever
18.3.08
Quote of the day
15.3.08
Happy Birthday KINZIIIIIII
couldnt find a card that is good enough for you,
so i hope you like this one
wish all your days as bright as the sun
great and cheerfull
and ofocurse a 1000
bosbos
:)
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7.3.08
Seriously
How do you bloggers manage to keep your blog updated everyday?
i am finding it so hard, especially after i started to work i have no friggin time for it or anything anymore, everything became like a chores or homework...even eating meals is no longer a pleasure its something i just have to do and i hate it i love to enjoy a hot well cooked and presented meal so much....but im not anymooooore
sense months i had many posts to blog about, which many are not done yet but still didnt find the time to blog them, the only time i have to blog is on weekends and i spend it catching up with the rest of the blogs out there and believe me i dont follow many blogs as some dose...now part of it is my very slow Internet connection fault but even though after sitting for like 11 hours a day for 5 days a week, really i dont want to be anywhere close to a computer .... ,
and right now i feel really bad well not that bad but ekh life is suck, actually just now i realise you cant juggle everything together, one thing that makes you happy and satisfied takes the pleasure from something else and if you want to practice everyhing at once you will be like a chiken running around with no head...im just tired right now and upset, and sick
people im sick i dont get sick ever but i have been this past week...
i really dont want to start on the shower surprises im getting lately but hopefully ill get to shower today eeerggghhh
everyone i hope i was missed
was i?
i am finding it so hard, especially after i started to work i have no friggin time for it or anything anymore, everything became like a chores or homework...even eating meals is no longer a pleasure its something i just have to do and i hate it i love to enjoy a hot well cooked and presented meal so much....but im not anymooooore
sense months i had many posts to blog about, which many are not done yet but still didnt find the time to blog them, the only time i have to blog is on weekends and i spend it catching up with the rest of the blogs out there and believe me i dont follow many blogs as some dose...now part of it is my very slow Internet connection fault but even though after sitting for like 11 hours a day for 5 days a week, really i dont want to be anywhere close to a computer .... ,
and right now i feel really bad well not that bad but ekh life is suck, actually just now i realise you cant juggle everything together, one thing that makes you happy and satisfied takes the pleasure from something else and if you want to practice everyhing at once you will be like a chiken running around with no head...im just tired right now and upset, and sick
people im sick i dont get sick ever but i have been this past week...
i really dont want to start on the shower surprises im getting lately but hopefully ill get to shower today eeerggghhh
everyone i hope i was missed
was i?
10.2.08
Yemen
i never thought yemen has such beatiful nature, amazing and unique architecture, thought im sure they could never had done it or produce such detailed work without chewing on Qatt all day long..its imposible, they must be high while building
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